Standing out of the Crowd

Get tough and make it big time
The final countdown

You are a Loser! You are struggling with life and your life? Get tough, stand tall and make it once and for all.

Comply or die

Imagine telling your wife or girl friend that you are faithful 99% of the time or telling your boss that you are not steeling from him 99% of the time! Success, like for anything else command 100% commitment.

Stop waiting for a miracle to happen

Stop waiting to be rescued by God or the heavenly beings. Stop waiting for the lottery winning ticket. Stop waiting for any kind of Messiah, prophet, and guru to come and tell you how to make it. Stop waiting for the government to come and save you. Nobody, no one is coming to the rescue. Grow up; you are not a child anymore. Stop acting like one. No one can save you from being a loser except yourself.

Stop socializing with losers

People are all born equals but some become losers and other winners. Winners don’t make friends with losers. Avoid losers even especially if these losers are your best friends or part of your family; being a loser is contagious. The more you socialize with losers, the more you listen to them and soon, you become like them, complaining about nothing and everything and doing absolutely nothing to improve your situation. Stick with winners, winning is contagious.

Grow up emotionally

Get brutally honest and once and for all, have a close look at yourself in the mirror. What you see is what people see. What do they see? A very fit individual; A well dressed person; a trustful person, a bright looking and professional individual; someone that everyone wants to socialize with … or some kind of a freak show or vision polluting device; some kind of a fat ugly duck or sorry cow; some kind of a born loser or pathological sociopath that everybody and everyone want to run away from …? Have a good look at yourself in the mirror and tell me! Be honest with yourself! Would you hire you? Get in touch with reality! To grow, to thrive and prosper in the years to come, one has to be fit; one has to be fit physically, mentally and emotionally and today is your day for a reality check! Take your pill and swallow it! Cry a little, maybe a few days or so, and get to work. You want to make it tomorrow, grow up now; only mental, emotional and physical fitness will allow you to survive, to thrive and prosper.

Expect to pay the price

If you really want to make it, there will be a price to pay; the higher you want or wish to fly, the higher the cost. Get ready to pay the price! No one gets a free ride anymore in this world of ours and the next six years to come will be even more demanding for both, losers and winners. You are a loser? You are already enduring and paying the high price of being for perceived as an unfit and a born loser; convert that pain into willpower and use it as your main source of motivation to become a winner.

Today is the time to comply or die. You don’t understand this! You may as well go kill yourself right now; you are already doomed. In tomorrow’s world there is no room for the losers; your life will be a living hell all your life!

To be continued…


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Facebook no more!


It’s official.  I am no longer a fan of Facebook.

While nobody offended me, while I did not have a bad experience, I am not thrilled about the useless informal idea of social media sharing.

Facebook have been sucking time from my life too long and not making me any money and, unlike money, time is a zero sum game. While some of the time spend on Facebook may have edifying, as a real person, I rather much prefer to meet with my real friends Face to Face and most of my Facebook friends are not actually friends.  This makes me wonder of the reason why I initially got on Facebook: “How many virtual friends can I assemble?” 

As for the photo sharing process, there are other much more better options.  And, after all, everything considered, why would I care about sharing and seeing my pictures on Facebook for the FBI, the Mossad, The CIA, The RCMP or other mobster organization or governmental agencies around the world? Do I hate myself, the members of my family or my friends that much? Thinking about it, Facebook often brings out the worst in people.  The willingness of so many to demonstrate their arrogance and total ignorance of the facts of life still boggles me!  I learn more about everything and everyone on Twitter.  

Twitter is in fact to Facebook what a biography is to a novel. There is nothing wrong with reading fiction, but I confess that I feel a little guilty and ashamed when I spend time reading something that do not make any sense, that is total fabrication, that did not or will never actually happen. Twitter is now one of my number one sources for hard news, opinions and facts as well as a relational connecting point. This is even better than LinkedIn to learn about people and or their expertise. Twitter is more of a resource and less of a popularity contest and self-congratulating tool than both, Facebook and LinkedIn

Furthermore, the presence of ads on Facebook is getting ridiculous.  Am I the only one who notices that?

Yes, like I like to say, “less is often more” and my only mission in life is to simplify life, my life and the life of everyone else who, like me, would like to profit from life, not just have a taste of what life can be. What I want, for myself and everyone is a lower cost of living, both financial and energy wise and a higher quality of life. What I want is to limit the number of these insignificant and meaningless things that compete for my attention so that I can enjoy those I really care the most about.  Yes indeed, less is often more and Facebook is simply not for me.

Goodbye, Facebook, Hello Twitter!